This study explored the experiences of women who were victims of domestic violence and their coping journey in an abusive relationship. In the course of the study, three (3) research problems were answered; namely: (1) What were the experiences of the informants; (2) What were the effects of violence on the informants; and (3) How did the informants cope with the abusive relationship?. The study involved five women who were victims of domestic violence. They were from Barangay Marigondon, Lapulapu City, Cebu, Philippines. The phenomenological design was utilized in this study, and the collection of information techniques were: In-depth interviews and Focus Group Discussion. The informants were asked to sign the consent with the content of the terms and purposes of the interview, using an audio or video recorder for the purpose of recording the conversation. The in-depth interview was conducted in a place where it was favorable to the informants. The participation of the informants was voluntary, and they were assured of the confidentiality of their identity. A free flowing mode of conversation was obtained and the informants have shared their personal experiences. Nine themes surfaced in this study; namely: Victims of Abusive Relationship, Powerlessness under Male Abuser, Vicious Cycle of Violence, Impaired Sense of Being, Diminished Self Worth, Distressed Children, Reclaiming Strength and Self-confidence, Standing up for the Children, and Creating a Support System. Based on the findings of the study, the following measures for implementation were offered: Massive education and awareness campaign on R.A. 9262 from the Barangay up to the national level. Establishing Support Groups and Help Lines where battered women can call for help, providing Shelters, Centers, and Halfway Houses as havens for run-away and battered women, and providing free services from Social Workers, Psychologists, Medical Practioners, and Legal Advisers to help battered women. A further analysis and in-depth inquiry on the study of the experiences of children witnessing violence while growing up were also suggested as means of assessment. These were to assess whether or not children repeat the same cycle of violence experienced from abusive parents. Furthermore, the Local Government Units were encouraged to collaborate with Local and International Organizations who provide trainings for abused women to become advocates of a violence-free society, incorporating sustainable livelihood programs, trainings, and short term courses to empower abused women to be self reliant and help reclaim their dignity to start a new phase in their lives.
